Few symbols of authority trump fatherhood—just think of God, Oedipus, or the Founding Fathers. But fatherhood is more complex, fragile, and uncertain than our ubiquitous paternal metaphors suggest. For Father’s Day, we’ve compiled some of Boston Review’s best essays on the illusions, intricacies, and challenges of fatherhood.
Illusions about fatherhood begin with biology. In popular culture, testosterone is seen as a basic constituent of masculinity, but according to Anne Fausto-Sterling, this simplistic hormonal story has “troubling consequences.” The pervasive belief that testosterone “creates social structure” begets specious justifications of patriarchy based on bogus biology, she argues.
Indeed, biological paternity itself may fail to satisfy key historical and cultural criteria for fatherhood. As Nara Milanich notes, defining fatherhood in strictly genetic terms is a relatively recent development, reinforced by the rise of DNA testing. In the past, fatherhood “was defined in social and volitional terms: the father was the man who publicly and willingly performed this role before the community.” “Despite promising a golden age of certainty,” Milanich writes, “the dramatic advances of the DNA era have failed to resolve our longstanding cultural and legal uncertainty about what paternity is in the first place.”
Shifting the discussion from biological to political paternity, William Hogeland argues that liberal “originalists” should be more skeptical of the idea that the Founding Fathers created a constitution well-suited to the requirements of modern liberal democracy. “Our Whig-inspired founders feared broad democracy as much as they feared monarchy,” Hogeland writes. “More significantly, they wrote the U.S. Constitution in large part to defeat it.”
Elsewhere in this week’s reading list, Judith Levine examines the connection between paternal authority and “don’t say gay” laws; Stephanie Burt asks how poets have represented fatherhood; Walter Johnson reflects on guns, hunting, and rituals of father-son bonding; Essiah Ritchie talks frankly about the challenges of raising a neurodivergent son; Will Holub-Moorman grapples with the dueling injustices of family policing and the nuclear family; Mary Fainsod Katzenstein and Mary Lyndon Shanley discuss incarcerated fathers; and Melinda Cooper explains fathers’ role in dismantling the welfare state.
Fantasies of Fatherhood
Paternity is more complex than the stories we tell about it.